Believe – Be the optimistic person that lead the herd, not the follower. Be who, who created you to be, nothing less.
There's so many things happening around us, Do you want to be the Victor? or the Victim? Get rid of that self-pity feeling, don't allow people to suggest how low you should go. People cannot control your mood, mind you, why would allow them to make you feel bad? Yes, on your face, you approved it, don't blame. If you should be near it, wash your face get out of it quick.
Have a winner mentality, you did not fail, you just found another reason why it didn't work.
There are people who can't even perform a normal chore is still thanking God, for he can still feel the light.