The backdoor - Not all houses come with a back door. Back doors are always another alternative to the entrance or exit of the building. 

In the scenario of a dispute, many people will use any means to argue for their rights without the thought of how the words can damage the opposite party, thus also shutting down their own backdoor when the words become to damaging. (there is a Chinese proverb or saying I can’t agree with is: “if you have fight, you won’t know the acquaintance.” something like that. I don’t understand why men have to fight it out, there must be alternative and I believe things can be solve in another manner where we call it “win, win” or meet in between, there is a way out if you want to look for it. “One door shut while another door opens.”

During a fight you can pin the victim right to the ground, without giving him a chance to fight back, but have you ever thought you might be at your peak, strongest point, and have you wonder if one day you get weak will someone give you a chance?

Leave a space to breathe and retreat, you will never know when you are weak, never know when you will need it. The back door can save yourself from getting totally injured.

This is the journey, sometimes you are up there sometimes not.