Create a vision - of who you want to be (not what people want you to be) similar to goal setting, if you seen it in your thoughts, you will be there in the body.  Be bold, be confident, be happy and enjoy what you want to be, be adventurous, you might not feel to comfortable about it at first, you will soon get use to it as it become a trend. Because we are all unique, we create that vision and soon you will be one.

Make yourself a vision of who you want to be, picture yourself in the person of you as that person. (Imagination and thoughts will bring you places)