Sometimes we have forgotten, totally about it, and we feel that it’s the way it is, and quietly everything is laid orderly for you when you need and get scolded if it’s not done. (maybe you want to shift a bit to text your wife and say “Thank you Dear!”

Mind you, not everybody is as forgiving, and we have witness quiet a fair bit of disaster, and don’t give excuse to run, to hide, to walk away. Go to a corner, there must be a point where you can meet halfway, for the sake of people around you that might be affected if the situation is not resolved in a more amicable manner, give each other a second chance. “There’s a way.” Unless the things are fake since day one.

Otherwise just recall those good memories re-live into it, maybe you are very angry, go to a corner cool down quickly then talk. Alternatively, if you have a family friend ask for their help. It will do so good somehow.