Try seeing and becoming your problem – I am the problem, see yourself, solution, don’t see yourself as a victim. Most of the time no, agree? There must this someone that will cause you dropping yourself into the problem, we are fast to find the fault of people, but not realise you are also the root to it at time. Study the issue a little more, you will spot yourself too, so do not be too fast to complain, be fast to spot the issue and get out of it fast, you do not want to dwell in the problem zone too long.