Nanny your kids – It will be nice, indeed. Do you have what it takes to stay at home to look after them? People always complain even the couple work whole week the expenses is just too high. Agree, Singapore most of us have to. Is your kid future less important than the money you have right now? I am talking to groom him as a top professional, but a man with a good character and plus plus.

I know a few close families that brought up the kids themselves, brought up by the parents, brought up by a maid or a third-party educational centre. Of course, every child is different, standards are different, and influences level are different. Some attentions paid here is definitely well worth it.

Looking after them yourself, you will know what’s best, and you will have many restrictions compare when you allow your parents to take over, while you churn the money. Parent’s are more relax on the kids, and thus sometimes it gets out of hand. Kids are so smart now, they have 2 characters, in front of the parents they are the good ones, with the grand parents they are the notorious bunch. One grandma told me you can’t touch them, we will lost the income. What? Lost the income? And no choice if the kids have to be naughty, he can? Something is wrong here, but we are nobody to address, and sadly this is not the first case. While looking especially by the maid, they will be same, in front of you they will be at their best, as what you expected, but behind the scene, your kids is raised by the television.

I didn’t really understand till I become a Grab driver, who drive at night, and the young adults are so different than who we are those days. The handful of notorious boys were one time very good kids and some even have very good grades, and what have become of you? Who injected them with the “notorious genes” along the way?

Not too late, with a little effort, pay attention before they sink in too deep. And if you see a problem : Talk it out, don’t shout. “remember you were once a teenager, and you don’t like harsh comments on yourself and your friends, talk it out, don’t push too hard. All kids listen to their parents.