Don’t bully people – if you don’t bully people, you don’t have to answer later, or worried if someone’s’ bigger coming after you. Live in stage where you fear nothing, what you do everyday is just, no worries, no harm done. You don’t have to worry when the door or phone ring at odd hours send the shiver up your spine. Even in group meeting, you don’t have to worry somebody know your ugly side. I have now practiced my conscious when I am doing something, “do I have to answer?”

Only when you need to fight back, if possible, make sure he’s the same size, if he is small, see if you can let it go, if he’s big, don’t dash head on, think before you act, it’s not worth it, as not everyone will be like you, and I have seen many incident like this, when one is alone, he is small as a mouse, when he’s in a group, he is fierce like a lion, (I really got no idea, have he really seen himself in the mirror before). No point confronting this people, the society will take care of them sooner or later, and I am quite sure you are too busy to downgrade to talk to them. So smile, walk away.