Create relationship – Be the true self, clear mind, have good thoughts, solutions will come, love and fear is opposite, creative solution, meet new friend be sincere and honest.

Be the ear, be ready to assist within your means, and be truthful and frank. Don’t have to pretend you are alright if you are not. Pretending is just like make-up, each time you have to spend time doing it, and time to time you have to check, tiring. Real friend that is not bothered with what you have and know you well that they have accepted who you are. Treasure this people very hard to come by. Nobody is obligated to help you. You don’t want to be caught in a situation where you got no place to hide. Be who you are always, like when you are alone, who are you, and with someone else, the same you, not to dress to impress. If they are really your friends, they will take it “just the way you are”

Speak up in time of discomfort, you treasure this friendship the more you need to express, it’s not being rude, but being concern and care. Help if possible, to change. Make them family friends, invite them for family activities, they will know how important they are to you.

If possible don’t borrow or lend money from a friend, give if you can. Friendships turn bad in such situation, especially when they are not able to make it. If you really need to help, set aside the amount that you are comfortable not taking it back. It's difficult, there must be another way out. Do appreciate the situation carefully and make careful suggestions. Money is the root to all evil.

In order, to keep the friendship alive and good, don’t get money in picture, even at meals, remember to buy back the next time. Remember birthday, or any other special day.

The real good friend, where? There’s one at home, it was your girlfriend / boyfriend previously, very thankful if they are still around, to help you. Treasure it. If not you are probably all alone right now. Be nice, not compromise.